Capetonification

A lot of folk, and by folk, I mean man-folk, do not put a lot of emphasis on kissing.
All their attention is focused on tits & ass.
They go in for the game-ender, the pussy, and the art of the kiss is left to fizzle.
I can't blame them. Those two (three?) are a lot of fun.
And don't forget the pooper.
If you're that way inclined.

Call me old fashioned, but I think kissing is great.
In fact, you can get a lady dripping just by using your lips.
True story.

Now I've kissed a few women in my life.
And for the most part, they let me lead.
It took a while to get the technique down.
I'm sure i was like some over-eager puppy when I was at my pimpliest, but in time even plants can learn, and so did I.
Top rule, keep 'em moist. Your lips I mean.
Nobody likes to kiss the great wall of China.
So be generous on the chap stick.
Over the years I refined my technique.
I pulled back on the tongue, used the lips more. Added in a few soft nibbles, and in the end I was satisfied with the product.
And the evidence showed that the ladies agreed.

Or so I thought.
There has been a dispute.
Just the one mind you.
There's always gotta be the 'one'.

Said I needed to calm down.
Use my lips more.
Less tongue.
Said I was an OK kisser.
Said I was a typical guy and went for tits and ass too quickly.

That was like a kick in the nuts.
I thought I was past all that.
But I took the advice.
And now not a fucking day goes by without me thinking about her chastising words when I kiss.

Am I a better kisser for it?
I don't think so.

But if I was as shit as she said, I know how it felt.
I knew a girl.
A nice lady.
Great body.
Awesome to hang out with.
Then she kissed me.
And now I know how it is to be taken by man.
She literally rammed her questing tongue down my throat. It was like a scene from Aliens, and she was the face-hugger.
She also done this sucking thing and nearly tore the tongue out of my fucking head.
I gotta say though, despite the blood and torn tissue, I got a boner anyway.
It's a bit S&M but I think I could grow to like her rough technique.

So what's the general consensus?
What do you think about kissing?
Is it important, or is it just a precursor to better things?

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